My spouse, who has ADHD, has conveyed to me, subtly and directly, that it is unreasonable or abnormal that I have needs for emotional support (e.g., someone to talk to occasionally about me and my life) and that I expect these needs to be met in our marriage, by him.
As a result, I have shut down my neediness. I don't talk to my husband about myself and I rarely talk to other people about myself. I feel incredibly lonely. So, everyone out there, what do you think: is it wrong to have needs?