Just an update....nothing has changed. My DH refuses to see there are issues and he is still planning a way out. I haven't found a way to ask him for a separation yet, I want us to part as friends at least and I would like to get through the holidays for his daughters sake (shes only 8). Today he picked me up from work and asked how my day went. Thinking I could be honest (first day on my own at the new job), I told him it was a bit stressful because I was on my own and still had to ask alot of questions. I am the type of person that wants to learn something NOW, I hate looking dumb. Well the first words out of his mouth were "so you hate this job now too, you might as well just quit now". Really? In the sentence, it was a bit stressful"...where did I say I hated it!!! I told him no I didn't hate it, but I didn't retain as much as I would have liked from the last couple weeks of training. His response to that was "I thought you knew what you were doing, if you cant do the job you need to find something else". Arrrrrrggggg..... I couldn't win!! Then I had to explain to him why he cant come into the office and ask my coworker to find my purse so he can have the debit card...yeah she was real happy with that. He was like "they know me, why do they care" then he says "why is the bitch running her mouth anyway", because she asked me to ask him not to do it again. At the moment we are not even speaking!!
I miss all of you...especially you Sherri. I cant get on here like I used to, my new job keeps me way to busy!! Hugs to all!