Male sex issues with ADHD

I'll keep this as clean as possible.  When it comes to having sex with AD/HD, am I the only one that has troubles finishing?  When I was younger, it was cool to last and last and last, but as I have gotten older...and now that I am married, I wish I could hurry up!

I find myself getting distracted.  It wasn't until recently that I put two and two together and realized that the AD/HD, not some god given sexual gift, was most likely the reason for this "problem".

Any hints, help, ideas?  Can you relate?  Anyone?

Me too

See my comment in anger and frustration.  It is severely affecting my life.  I absolutely hate myself for it.  I cannot stand the feeling.  Most of all I hate the feeling that my wife gets.  Her frustration is the root of my depression.