Just found this site. I hope someone has some encouraging tips/ideas to help me to understand how this husband of mine communicates!!! It took my 22 year old son with ADHD to say MOM I can't talk to you because you take too long and you lose me and I get frustrated and then yell at you. Then he said Dad talks and I can't understand what he says at all!! And the whole family feels that way! We look at him like what the hell???? He is a very successful salesman so we know he can communicate! But when he tries to talk to us/me I just dont get it. He ends up looking like a dufus and this in return makes him upset and then he shuts down.
Is there a trick to this? One of number one issues is communication. We both feel like we are talking in a foreign language! So, woman vs. man bad enough right....woman vs. adhd man OMG are ya kidding me!!! HEEEELLLLLPPP!! I can't imagine going another 24 yrs like this!