OK. The past couple of weeks I have read, and chatted and ranted and supported and identified and related and bashed (and laughed) on this site. I am ready now to ask my big question:
Is there anyone here- anyone at all (besides Melissa Orlov and Sherri), married to someone with ADD/ADHD who managed to bring their marriage back from the dead? I don't mean "We weren't getting along" or "We argued all the time but still really loved each other." I mean a true resurrection.
Because Melissa is saying that if/when my husband starts treatment, I should "smother him with love." We are so dead, the very idea feels awkward to me. Not because I hate or despise him. Its just not there.
That's my question. Oh, and no recommendations of divorce please; not because I would find it offensive (I don't). Just that I already know that option is available to me, and it isn't my question.