Is that more people with ADHD/ADD would read and post on these forums on this site.
I read some of the posts to my BF yesterday, and he thinks some of the behavior that ADHD partners exhibit is ridiculous, and in his mind have nothing to do with ADHD. Perhaps his ADHD is not severe, as I am sure there are varying levels of ADHD. Once he learned strategies and coping mechanisms from his behavioral therapist, he found that his life was made easier through routines and schedules.
That said, it would be very helpful to have input from more than a few men and women with ADHD. Being that this is my first relationship with a man with ADHD, I don't know which behaviors are ADHD related and which are not.