I have recently finished reading the book. I am getting married in about 44 days, however my future wife and I have some issues. I believe the major issues are coming from my ADHD and looking for some help and suggestions what do.
Basically, thought our three years of dating I have issues that seem to continue to go in a cycle. I tend to be inconsiderate, become defensive and do what I want to do (not terrible things). I would never cheat on her, I never cheated on anyone in my life. She can be uncomfortable with my friends as well as my family sometimes. People tend to have their options and views as I have changed since we have been together. The way I communicate has also been a problem, I tend to use words or convey the wrong messages, at this point, we are getting ready to get married. My wife to be lost all trust in me, she thinks I am shady, I hid things and feels I don't think she is special anymore and I wouldn't/didn't take the extra steps to show her.
She thinks I don't love her as much as she loves me, when the truth of the matter is, I do love her very much, I do think she is very special to me, however my actions don't show her this.
I am looking for some advice on how I can tell her/show her i do care about her, I do love her and I do want this to work.