Hi. I am new to the group. Married for 15 years 3 children together for 20. All these years I thought my husband was being an [email protected]@hole. I finally asked him for a separation because I felt I was crazy. Mostly because that what he told me. Finally went to a therapist on my own and he followed suite. Discovered he has ADD. I thought I can do this but do not think I can. This is all too much. I feel like he got in an accident and is now a different person. I find myself even getting angry at my therapist for telling me this is not his fault and I have to give him less responsibility. I know it's a real problem but I'm not sure I can deal with this. I applause all who do. I am new to finding out this diagnosis and just here to see how other people deal with this situation. Prayers to all.