It is so lonely to be the non ADD spouse because anything you share about your life never seems to be remembered. I don't even know how this can be a relationship. Although there is a lot of compassion for what I am going through at the moment, I feel once that moment is gone , it is also gone from him. I just feel like I don't want to share anymore if it disappears from his mind so soon. We are human beings that have a past,present and dreams of the future and I just don't understand that an ADD person only lives in the moment. Well, I do understand that this is just the way it is but I can't imagine anything more lonely than two people who love each other but only one of them remembers most of that life together. IF THERE IS ANYONE OUT THERE WHO FEELS THE SAME WAY, PLEASE HELP ME.