Non ADHD spouse withdraw

How do you bring non ADHD spouse out of withdraw.  She want nothing to with the book or anything. 

As a non adhd spouse

If she is like me..she went into withdraw mode after a long time of frustration and confusion... it is hence going to take time to beckon her out... loving, kindness, least it would for me... I rather am stuck myself...working with him but exhausted... don't forget the basics now.... Something my husband is trying to do that I feel is causing a stir in me to look back towards him is letting me catch up on my sleep for the last 3 or 4 days.  I wish you well.