Non-spouse feeling cherished?

Do any of you other non-ADHD spouses have tips for feeling cherished/appreciated/loved by your spouse? 

WAY before my husband's diagnosis (which was only a couple months ago) we saw a therapist who told me I deserve to be cherished - that really struck a chord with me because before my husband became so hyperfocused on work I felt cherished the most I had in my life before we met. I know he'll never hyperfocus on me again, but on the monthly occasion that he's able to stop hyperfocusing on his job I automatically feel cherished, so I know it's possible for me to feel that way. I would like for it to happen more often, though!