Just married a year, yesterday as a matter of fact and we are separated.  This isn't the first time either, the first time was in November.  I took my husband back under the conditions that he would seek counseling and stop the constant complaining and ignorant comments towards me and my children, but that lasted about a week and gradually progressed into me asking him to leave on the day before Christmas.  So here I sit, not knowing what next........Christmas, New Years and now yesterday our first year anniversary and didn't spend any of it as a family.  He is so stubborn, will not admit that he has symptoms of extreme ADHD and our couple counselor even told him that and suggested testing.  Why is he sacrificing his family over not admitting he has a condition that to some degree is treatable?  He is one minute telling me how much he loves me and didn't want this, but then turns around and says it is my fault because I am this and that.  I have had to call the police as he has removed property from our home while I was at the train station sending my son off to the military and I have changed the locks to the home.  Is he going to sit down and talk to me about anything.  I feel like I am left holding the bag, not knowing what to do.  He is so impulsive, last separation he immediately filed divorce papers and tried to get me and my kids out of the house.  This time it seems different.......I don't know what he is up to.  Is there anything I can do?  Just seems like we can't communicate without him pointing fingers at me while really if he took a long hard look in the mirror at himself, he may find the answer as to why I am wife #2 and hopefully not ex-wife soon.

Frustrated and extremely sad.......