Over it!

I'm sure I'm not the only one on this forum who feels ignored and invisible.  I'm so sick of pulling the weight in this marriage.  My husband would be just fine if we never had a serious talk about anything.  It seems to also be just fine with him to sit for hours on end not uttering a word to each other.  He stays in his own world with his laptop and the remote control.  Heaven forbid that I get aggravated with this scenario or the fact that he pays me little to no attention.  He is 50 years old and his ADD seems to be getting worse the older he gets.  Of course, he won't take medication for it.  Yet he expects our 15 yr old son to take his ADD medication and gets frustrated with the very symptoms that I am supposed to accept and accommodate in my husband.  It is maddening.  I am the @(#$ if I point any of this out or want "more" out of our marriage.  "He's doing the best he can". I say BS.  He uses ADD as a crutch and a reason not be held accountable for the reasonable things that any woman expects.  I am sick to death of all of it!  Overall, he is a good person and I do love him.  He has many good qualities.  But the ADD symptoms are slowly driving me out of my mind.