psychological problems the non-ADHD spouse experiences

I am hoping someone can provide a comprehensive resource, or list of comprehensive resources, that discusses the various psychological problems that a non-ADHD spouse experiences due to the effects of living in an untreated/undertreated ADHD home.  All my searches wind up leading me to articles that speak almost exclusively about the ADHD spouse.  I am not talking about the spouse having their own disorder or anything--merely the psychological effects that the ADHD itself can create in the non-ADHD spouse.

My wife has been dealing with some mental health issues for several months, but I was diagnosed 3 weeks ago.  I am trying to get this information to show her so that she can find out whether her depression, etc is a result of our home life living with ADHD.