My question is do you think people can change.

I made the mistake of going on to another site and making some comments on a subject. I turned my email notifications off for this site so that if people responded to my post I wouldn't be getting notified anymore.

I made a mistake this morning of going back onto this site just to read what other people are posting. I noticed that someone had responded to one of my comments. They blasted me it was horribly critical, and now I'm crying and upset. Not the way I want to start my day.

So my question is this, just in general. Is it possible to marry someone and not really know them? Is it possible to marry someone and have them begin to change so much within the first 6 years or so, so much that you don't know what you got yourself into?

That is what it was like for me and my marriage. No point in justifying my point of view. It took me a long time to recover what happened to me and now all it took was a few comments to bring me back to that point and have me crying again.