This blog is filled with so many, mostly women, who have agonized for so many years over their husbands ADD behaviors. I did the same thing, too, until after 25 years he had an affair (one of many I am sure) and walked out on the family. Where is he today? He's on a cruise enjoying himself with his girlfriend. Where am I? I am totally alone dealing with our son who is ADD, has a very good possibility of being bipolar and suffers from severe depression. What I would give to have the years back and to have made the decision years ago to end it. A message to all women - don't be financially dependent on your husband! Biggest mistake I ever made!!!