Just wanted to post a finding of mine over the weekend. Not sure but I believe it was published in 1994 its is called Answers to Distraction by Edward Hallowell M.D. and John J Ratey, M.D. This book does cover both children and adults with ADD. The book is all answers to frequently asked questions about ADD.
After reading it this weekend, I felt that I gained a new outlook on my DH's ADD and how he feels about himself (he doesn't speak about his feelings AT ALL and doesn't express feelings outside of saying he doesn't know or that he feels numb) due to the ADD. I plan to implement some of the suggestions in the book in order to help improve what I say and how I say it to DH and hopefully, this will help improve our communication.