Shared dreams

Does anyone else struggle because their ADHD partner doesn't have any dreams for the future for you and/or your family? My husband is a wonderfully present man by nature and struggles with planning or looking ahead. I find this really hard because, in contrast, I thrive on working towards exciting adventures in life. I realise I could just plan by myself and fill this need elsewhere but there is still that hole, that lack of shared dreams for us as a couple and as a young family. I also find that when I talk about exciting possibilities he shuts me down, fearful of change adn fearful that if he joins in i will 'run away with an idea'. 

Do I just need to accept this is the way it is?