I know that the very brave adhd folks who come to the anger forum sometimes get exposed to the raw side of our nonadhd pain. You are brave for doing that, but it shows hope that there are some of you who take the time to actually care. To those of you who work on your adhd related issues... THANKYOU from the bottom of my heart. It's a long road but you have guts and honesty to do it. Your spouses are very fortunate indeed.
to those spouses who, like me, love their adhd spouse but are left holding the bag... I love you all and you are not alone. I am working hard to rebuild my life and leave the anger and hurt behind me. I know you guys are in various places in this journey from just taking the first steps, to jumping off this road for better ground. You have all helped me so much through my own journey, helped me see my own issues and find my own strengths.
Just wanted to say THANKYOU since appreciation and care is so rarely felt by most of us. <3
If my life were made of Love Songs....
Submitted by c ur self on
This would be the Song my heart has sang to her for years....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lp-EO5I60KA
This is the Song reality has caused me to Sing these days....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tV32Owl9XQk
C
C and your songs......
Submitted by Zapp10 on
They are both beautiful and sad....because we here, if I may be bold, have heard from the heart of a sincere, truly faith filled being going to the nth degree for his marriage. NO ONE could ever say.........you didn't GIVE it the very BEST you had within you.....nope.....not from this group I dare say?
The lyrics give voice to what is in your heart.....thank you for sharing.
This is mine... It's the truth about me.
Submitted by SpaceyStacey197... on
http://youtu.be/17ozSeGw-fY
this song certainly cuts to the core of my existence for the past several years.
I hear you Stacy...
Submitted by c ur self on
We weren't created to be caged and starved emotionally! But that is to often the effect on those of us who stay in relationships that is void of any healthy connection...The emptiness and loneliness is staggering!...But, the reality and pain of what happens when we make ourselves vulnerable enough to reach out, keeps us buried deep with in ourselves...
But there can be peace; regardless of the circumstances...."persecuted but not abandoned; struck down but not destroyed"
Acceptance of reality!
edit...This will always be the product of a Self-absorbed mind......
C
Hear,hear.....
Submitted by dedelight4 on
Another Thank You to all the ADHD folks who post here. I wish there were more, and pray more folks with this condition face their fear of being "found out" or labeled in a bad light. I've seen the growth and bravery from those who DO post here, and it's wonderful.
I only wish my own husband had some of the courage thats been shown here, and desire to find out things, share stories, and not let fear rule his life.
Thanks again.
Dede