Submitted by Libby on 02/13/2019.
I crave a quiet simple life. I find I am trying to carve that out for myself within the confines of a chaotic marriage. I rarely do any social things with my DH. I have my few people that I see separately from him. I have my much loved children and grandchildren. I have my furbaby. And I have my daily routines which drive my DH crazy. He wants to run constantly and can't stand the mundane of daily stuff. Isn't that what life is mostly made up of? The daily stuff?
Not sure what I'm trying to say here except I am so very tired and want nothing more than a simple life and not chaos.
Same here!
Submitted by c ur self on
It's called live and let live, and setting boundaries....We all have lives to live, and we all have differences...Many adhders, are wide open individuals....My first (late) wife of 30 years was much like you say you are....And I was probably a little like your husband (married from age 20-50)....Now, I'm more like you....And my second wife (add) is much life your husband....
Acceptance.....And live and let live....When we stop putting pressure on our selves to please someone else (in making life something that isn't for us) we start finding ourselves Libby....
I know what you are trying to say;)
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