I've seen postings here and in other places of questions in quiz format of how to decide if you might have ADHD... but what I'm looking for is more of a list of statements as in the first two chapters of the book.
I want to approach my husband conversationally.. by saying something about how I found a list of statements that fit me.. and that I think this other list of statements might be how he feels. (Like "was your wife fun loving when you met but a complete nag now?"
THe quiz format leaves too much to the introspective.. "do you forget things a lot?" "do you miss appointments" stuff like that where they might immediately be defensive or might not even think it's ever a problem or that often... I want to appeal to his frustrations and emotions with our relationship... such as the "nagging" statement.