Is there a "relatable" statement list?

I've seen postings here and in other places of questions in quiz format of how to decide if you might have ADHD... but what I'm looking for is more of a list of statements as in the first two chapters of the book. 

I want to approach my husband conversationally.. by saying something about how I found a list of statements that fit me.. and that I think this other list of statements might be how he feels.  (Like "was your wife fun loving when you met but a complete nag now?"

THe quiz format leaves too much to the introspective.. "do you forget things a lot?" "do you miss appointments"   stuff like that where they might immediately be defensive or might not even think it's ever a problem or that often...   I want to appeal to his frustrations and emotions with our relationship... such as the "nagging" statement.