Is there a "relatable" statement list?

I've seen postings here and in other places of questions in quiz format of how to decide if you might have ADHD... but what I'm looking for is more of a list of statements as in the first two chapters of the book. 

I want to approach my husband conversationally.. by saying something about how I found a list of statements that fit me.. and that I think this other list of statements might be how he feels.  (Like "was your wife fun loving when you met but a complete nag now?"

THe quiz format leaves too much to the introspective.. "do you forget things a lot?" "do you miss appointments"   stuff like that where they might immediately be defensive or might not even think it's ever a problem or that often...   I want to appeal to his frustrations and emotions with our relationship... such as the "nagging" statement.

Ideas? 

Thanks.

On the right hand side of the

On the right hand side of the home screen is a list of Blog Categories, and the first one is "Melissa's Favorite Posts".  If you go there you will find a lot of good posts, but one in particular may help a lot...it's "For Men with ADHD Who Aren't Convinced it Matters".  There are other good ones as well.  I tried getting my BF to read (sent in the mail) that one, but he had already checked out of our relationship/cut me off, so I didn't have any success, but I wish you the best of luck on your journey WITH your spouse to better understand and work with ADHD.