Is There Time for this Marriage to be Saved?

 

 

Additions to my own post:  1)

Additions to my own post:  1) I've provided extensive assistance (research on long-term care and health care services, getting recommendations for health care professionals, cooking meals) for my husband and his parents, both just to help and in an attempt to improve the parents' situation sufficiently to make them less dependent on my husband.  2) Our finances are tight, as a result of cutbacks at my employer and my husband's underemployment. 3) My husband takes many medications but so far has been unable or unwilling to work on behavioral changes vis-a-vis his ADHD.