Unmedicated and trying to do Multi-tasking.

I just want to say that I am very frustrated at America as a whole. This isn't a political post, but this is a societal post. Why are the expectations on people so high to the point that everyone with ADHD must medicate? Manners, etiquette, respect, productivity, professionalism, appearance, organization, emotionless, resilient, patient... The rules that we must maintain at any given moment is overwhelming, complex, and to be frank unnecessary! And everyone knows that the more complex the rules and expectations are, the more likely someone with ADHD is going to have trouble doing it. So it is no surprise that we have a hard time in America; no one wants to be a "drone"! But I guess to be successful in America, we all have to be don't we?