Submitted by Angie_H on 09/16/2022.
Hello,
I post here occasionally when my frustration with my husband gets too hard to take. I need a hug. My husband and I were planning a short driving vacation. I chased after him for weeks, and we did not finalize any plans. I alone sketched out a draft itinerary that includes some places we each would like to visit. Then he pushed back the start date one day, which meant I had to check opening hours for the new dates. Tonight my husband realized we cannot plan routes and book hotels in time. Now we pushed the vacation back a full week. He promised he will keep his commitment to participate and finalize the plans in the next few evenings. I said we are not going if he does not keep this new planning commitment. He said OK!
Angie
Sending that hug
Submitted by MelissaOrlov on
It is really disappointing that something you were really looking forward to has been postponed due to your husband's procrastination. I am guessing it feels terrible to be at the mercy of his 'whims.' So...sending you that hug.
I'm sorry this is happening.
Submitted by PoisonIvy on
I'm sorry this is happening. It's very frustrating and sad to be stood up in this way.
totally relate
Submitted by iraolorum on
I laughed out loud when I saw the title of this post and want to give you a massive hug because you are describing pretty much all our holiday plans. I hope you get, or had your holiday. This year, I spent the week I booked off work for our big holiday catching up with local friends, walking the dog in the same old parks, and going to a few museums. It was nice, but not what I was hoping for and a poor plan B.