I post here occasionally when my frustration with my husband gets too hard to take. I need a hug. My husband and I were planning a short driving vacation. I chased after him for weeks, and we did not finalize any plans. I alone sketched out a draft itinerary that includes some places we each would like to visit. Then he pushed back the start date one day, which meant I had to check opening hours for the new dates. Tonight my husband realized we cannot plan routes and book hotels in time. Now we pushed the vacation back a full week. He promised he will keep his commitment to participate and finalize the plans in the next few evenings. I said we are not going if he does not keep this new planning commitment. He said OK!