We are finally going to marriage counseling

I let DH take the lead in finding a marriage therapist.  It came down to two people (one male and one female) and only one of them is on our insurance plan, so that made the choice easy. 

DH even called and made the appointment.  This past weekend was absolutely miserable, so I hope this helps!

We are both continuing to see our individual therapists as well.

Great news! I found it

Great news! I found it helpful to have some goals in mind or specifics to talk about before I went in. It saved my expensive minutes for talking about more meaty things. Just a small suggestion. Good luck!