My ADHD husband claims he is working hard and is frustrated that I don't give him credit for his accomplishments. He also claims he doesn't want to bother working at this because he has no guarantee I will stay with him after he works so hard. This last bit seems almost like he is attempting to induce guilt - however, it is not working.
I am continually frustrated at things that don't change. An example, he believes he is not angry all the time yet I see him angry all the time.
How the heck do we measure the progress?