My husband does not want to get tested/diagnosed


I have been married for 5 years and known my husband for over 10 years now. I have always had my doubts and have been doing enough research, talking to his parents, friends and observing and I have realised over the years that a lot of his patterns and our issues in our relationship suggest that he is showing signs of ADHD. He has self-diagnosed himself as 'dyslexic' as it seems to be easy enough and more glamourous diagnosis as he is a creative professional but he refuses to get assessed for it or if I ever mentioned ADHD he would have one of those massive anger outbursts that I am too scared to risk. How do I even go about doing anything about it as I am getting more and more certain that that is what it is. I understand that obvious answer is to find the right moment to talk but he NEVER ever wants to talk about anything that is even vaguely uncomfortable for him. I can never bring up this. Is there anything else I can do?


Thank you