My wife and I have been married for 15 years and they have been extremely rocky. I was diagnosed with ADHD about 8 years ago and take medication daily. My wife is at the raging point of our marriage. We have been living in separate parts of the house for just over a year now. I'm the GM of a restaurant and work on average 60 hours a week. It is not very conducive to a marriage and or personal life. The reason I am posting this is because I need help. She has been the one over the years moving her schedule around my ever changing work schedule; putting all the effort in to keep the marriage together; supporting me through my career and job changes; etc. But now she is done and over it. She will not spend another day off with me unless I have a plan to fix the marriage. What does that mean? She wants me to make up for the last 15 years and all the crap I have put her through. I have researched the internet and looked at books but everything is so basic. She doesn't want basic. She can get anyone to cook her dinner, go on a bike ride or get her Starbucks. She is a very intuitive empath, to which I am not. The level of hurt she has inside is immeasurable. Does this sound familiar to anyone? Can someone point me in the direction on how to get a plan together for us to reconnect? Any help would be appreciated.