so I have been reading a lot of these posts and it seems kind of depressing and hopeless. Probably because I am in the Anger and Frustration Forum. But still, it seems like there are a lot of people in a lot of pain because they are with an adhd partner. I have a question. If you were to go back in time, would you break up with ur adhd spouse when they were just your bf. Why? If not, why not? I am a twenty year old woman who has been dating an adhd man for over 2 years. I love him but I would be lying if I said we didn't have more problems than the average couple. We do. But I love him, and many times we are able to overcome obstacles. But our relationship can be very intense. I would also be lying if i said all of our problems are his fault. What would you tell your younger self at this point of the game? What should I look out for before deciding to marry him? Should I just leave now? What are signs I should be wary of? Please let me know. Thanks.