|ADHD & Marriage - Weekly Marriage Tip - October 15, 2013|
Heart to Heart
Tips for Thriving in your Marriage
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“Most marital arguments cannot be resolved. Couples spend year after year trying to change each other’s mind – but it can’t be done. This is because most of their disagreements are rooted in fundamental differences of lifestyle, personality, or values. By fighting over these differences, all they succeed in doing is wasting their time and harming their marriage.”
Think about the arguments you and your partner have had in the last two weeks. How many of them are spats you’ve had before? Most, I bet. Some research suggests that about 70% of fights are unresolvable for just the reasons that Gottman suggests – they result from legitimate and lasting differences between you.
So, thinking about the last two weeks – is there an ongoing fight that might benefit from negotiating a work around?
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© 2013 Melissa Orlov