Help. My ADHD husband makes me mad. We have been married for 3 years. Our child is 2 years old. For all the time with him, I experienced lies, lived for a long time with the feeling that I was being deceived (and it proved true), he does not complete anything to the end, he can freeze watching TV, he is very absent-minded, you cannot rely on him - he makes mistakes almost everywhere, he makes impulsive purchases, he interrupts, he does illogical things, I can’t calmly leave him with a child. From a recent: the child slept in a stroller without a blanket in the evening at + 16c, came from a walk with his legs and arms cold. Not making sure that there is a temperature, he simply gave him an antipyretic "just in case." Forgets everything all the time. He even forgot to wish me a happy birthday when I was at the maternity house two years ago. I'm constantly monitoring and tracking everything: two children (there is a daughter from my first marriage), a dog and him. He can leave the house in a soiled shirt. At the same time, he believed that everything was normal. Until I started searching and found out about ADHD. A month ago he went to a psychiatrist and was diagnosed with ADHD. He got prescribed strattera (atomoxetine), because stimulants are not available. But I'm already tired. I'm like a soldier who took out a comrade from the battlefield, and I myself am full of bullets ... I break down on him, yell, shout. When the lie was revealed, I slapped him in the face. It was last year. Now he reads a lot about ADHD, and constantly repeats: "This is ADHD, be patient, just be more tolerant to me, what's wrong with that ..." and I no longer have the strength to tolerate even his smallest slips
He only recently started a bullet journal, and he only keeps it, he says he doesn't know why he didn't make checklists in all rooms at least, and he doesn't have a notebook near bed, but he says he is working on improving his adhd, and I do not see any progress.
