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Hello folks,
My ADHD girlfriend (40 y/o) of 2 and half years (and with plans to get married) broke up with me in a whimp. She couldn't articulate reasonable argument for this impulsive act.
My question is:
Do I have any chance to get her back?...will she?...Anything I can do to help her, to try to come back together as a couple?...
I've been reading a lot, and learning as much as I can about ADHD.
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Her choice
I’d assume she has some reason to leave that is beyond your control.
Chasing a person will just make one miserable, Ive found. Especially with ADHD and avoidance, there are depths of misery there for a neurotypical partner that I believe you wouldn’t want to experience.
Sorry you’ve lost your fiancée. It must be so painful.
can I just chime in with Swedish here
She has shown you who she is. Believe her. Chasing her will only bring you deeper misery.
ditto to honestly...
Many KNOW they aren't capable of the consistent behavior it takes to have a peaceful life with a spouse....Many might not can own it, (talk openly about it) so the next best thing in their mind (even if they use blame as outlet) is to just abandon the person before the vow's...You should just recover, accept it...One day when your emotions are back to normal, you probably will be able to see it as a blessing...Wanting the best for others is never wanting them to take on a role they could never fill...