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Hello folks,
My ADHD girlfriend (40 y/o) of 2 and half years (and with plans to get married) broke up with me in a whimp. She couldn't articulate reasonable argument for this impulsive act.
My question is:
Do I have any chance to get her back?...will she?...Anything I can do to help her, to try to come back together as a couple?...
I've been reading a lot, and learning as much as I can about ADHD.
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Her choice
I’d assume she has some reason to leave that is beyond your control.
Chasing a person will just make one miserable, Ive found. Especially with ADHD and avoidance, there are depths of misery there for a neurotypical partner that I believe you wouldn’t want to experience.
Sorry you’ve lost your fiancée. It must be so painful.
can I just chime in with Swedish here
She has shown you who she is. Believe her. Chasing her will only bring you deeper misery.