My partner has undiagnosed Adhd and I love him very much. For the majority of the time things are good but some things are wearing me down and I don't feel i am being heard nor that any action is taken.
We have been together for nearly 3 years and at the start he was very vocal about his love and how he was desperate to move in and to marry me.
Now that we actually can, he seems to have unilaterally decided that he doesn't want to marry me anymore but no conversation has been had, no reasons provided...nothing. I tried several times to bring this up and discuss what is going on... he assures me that he loved me more than st the start and he is very present in my life but marriage for me is a non negotiable, I am.not prepared to spend years with someone who doesn't see me as marriage material. I want to have a proper conversation so I know what to do but everything it ends in no conversation and RSD triggered as he interprets it as me feeling he doesn't love me enough...how can I get to them bottom of this and actually sort it out? Thank you!
