That time of year again--a time when I sit at my computer and he gets frustrated for having to hand over papers and documents to me. He has never once--not once--done our taxes or took it upon himself to find someone to do them. The one year I waited on him to take care of it, I ended up rushing to a storefront rip-off place past the deadline. I'm thinking this is the end of this. I'm going to look for a professional tax person.
I'm so very tired of being the responsible adult in our marriage. I'm tired of walking through the house to make sure candles he has lit (terribly habit) are blown out before we leave or go to bed; of cooking every meal; of finding every contractor we need to do any bit of work in or around the house; of doing the deep cleaning in the house; of arranging for the pet sitter; of making the vet appointments for our dog; of constantly unloading the dishwasher and wiping down counters; of wiping down grime; I could go on and on. Yes, I have tried sitting back. I am not a control freak. I don't want all the responsibility. I do not want control! The clock on our microwave stopped (electricity went out for a moment). This time, I sat back and watched to see when/if HE would punch in the right time. It's been over 2 weeks. He doesn't know how. He won't figure out or learn how.
If you feel I've done or am doing something wrong, you won't hurt my feelings by saying so. Resentment is building.
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