Guys, help. Anyone else have some practical or experienced suggestions on how to deal with multiple neuro diverse-ness in the same house?
I got an 11 year old with a potential autism diagnosis (but I can clearly see how his dad's behaviour over the years has affected him) and a 48 year old husband with an adhd dx but its totally unmanaged and pretty much dictates how the house goes. And my husband behaves like a teenager. On top of it all, we have a lovely dog but is having behaviour problems whoch takes work...but I seem to be the only one who is taking it on. Its overwhelming.
If I totally honest, if I had the guts I'd kick my husband out. I'm so done with his choices, behaviour and excuses. I'm sure he's working hard but he works hard to please others and exhausts himself. Every. Single. Day. And then I'm expected to just keep going. I know its gonna break me soon and I'm worried about myself.
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I’m sorry.
I think you may have identified the one thing that will help.
My kids are also neurodiverse tho ndx, (q. autism, inattentive adhd) and my dog is a nervous rescue who barks her head off when stressed.
We split. Things are so much easier. For me and for the kids. And, for that matter, the dog.