ADHD & Marriage News - June 30, 2022
Quote of the Week
“If you distrust the people around you because you think they have bad values or are out to hurt you, then you are going to be slow to reach out to solve common problems. Your problems will have a tendency to get worse, which seems to justify and then magnify your distrust. You have entered a distrust doom loop.”
- David Brooks
The Distrust Doom Loop
Bad things, reinforced, get worse. Good things, reinforced, get better. Pretty straightforward as a concept, and yet when it comes to our relationships, we regularly forget it.
Take responsibility for your part, and respectfully reach out to your partner to solve common problems. Don’t hide. Don’t berate. Don’t control.
And make sure to work on your own issues that contribute to distrust, too. That probably includes optimizing ADHD management as well as moving away from parent/child dynamics.
Are you in a distrust doom loop?
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For those in marriages impacted by ADHD
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Resources
Is your relationship in trouble? Consider my highly acclaimed couples' course: ADHD Effect In-Depth Couples' Seminar - The next live session STARTS SEPTEMBER 14, 2022.
Support Tele-groups - Be part of a community exploring similar issues, successes and struggles and find new, effective ways to be your best self in your relationship: Non ADHD Partner Support Tele-group and ADHD New Habit Coaching Group.
How to Optimize Treatment for Adult ADHD - go to the home page for a free download about the best ways to manage ADHD.
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