ADHD & Marriage News - October 24, 2019

Quote of the Week

“I arise in the morning torn between a desire to improve (or save) the world and a desire to enjoy (or savor) the world. This makes it hard to plan the day.”

-E.B. White


If I have one regret about my past, it is that I spent way too much time trying to improve my world (and my husband’s role in it) and not enough time savoring my days.  This is understandable – some days I felt I was barely holding things together, and my time with my husband could be very hard.  It didn’t feel as if there was much to savor.

And yet…once I started thinking with gratitude and seeking things for which I could be thankful I realized that when you are frustrated and angry it obscures the good that is actually also present in your life.  You focus on the hard stuff and forget there is also good.

I strongly recommend taking 3-5 minutes each day to focus just on the good stuff.  What are you grateful for?  It can make your whole day feel (and be) different.


How to Find Gratitude in a Struggling ADHD-Impacted Relationship Read more.

ADHD Effect In-Depth Couples' Seminar - This 8-session phone seminar started October 21, 2019 - but there's still time to join...

For those in marriages impacted by ADHD

You can find great resources for couples impacted by ADHD at, including free: Online treatment overview; Downloadable chapters of my books; A community forum with other couples facing similar issues; A large number of blog posts on various topics; Referrals. Adult ADHD can have a huge impact on your relationship. can literally change your life!  


Is your relationship in trouble? Consider my highly acclaimed couples' course: ADHD Effect In-Depth Couples' Seminar - This 8-session phone seminar has helped many couples thrive in healthier, happier relationships. The live session started October 21, 2019 - still time to join

Support Tele-groups - Be part of a community exploring similar issues; learn from each other's successes and struggles; and find new, more effective ways to be your best self in your relationship: Non ADHD Partner Support Tele-group and ADHD New Habit Coaching Group.

How to Optimize Treatment for Adult ADHD - go to the home page for a free download about the best ways to manage ADHD.

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