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I'm so frustrated. While I'm looking for solutions for my marriage, which is really dysfunctional right now due to ADHD, my husband is turning to marijuana for support, which only makes me feel more neglected and indifferent, and completely powerless. I feel so sad right now, I can't sleep, and my heart is breaking. I don't know what to do to balance things out. Just feels like I'm drawning.
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I'm so sorry
That sounds so tough - a lot of us have been there too: when the partner finds a way to cope but it's not something that is beneficial or healthy and ultimately does more damage than helps.
It's so tough. Is marajuana use a hard no/boundary for you? Like a deal breaker? It might be the way to start in seeing how u feel about this but if its a deal breaker, this might be your way out or at least a boundary set that it can't happen or you will need to leave. Just a thought but I don't know ur own stuff or story.