Does anyone else have this problem with their spouse? My husband will leave doors open all the time - back door, front door, garage door, microwave oven door, cabinet doors.
Hey everyone, I've written about this on here before but I am back. I am 32 and my husband is 30. We've been married for a year and together for five. For the first 4 years, I was in law school at night will working full time, then graduated and was studying for the bar exam at night while working full time, then just tense waiting for results and hoping i'd have a job.
We currently have 2 cats. I'm happy with two. We used to have 3 and one died last year. It took me a long time to get used to 3 cats since I am a clean freak and am constantly cleaning up cat hair. I love them to death but am not looking to add to our brood. H was gung ho about getting a dog. No no no! A dog is too much work. He finally gave up on that idea and said we should get a kitten. I finally got on board with that after a few weeks and got excited about it and said we should go to the shelter that weekend.
I have been married for 34 years was diagnosed about 12 years ago with ADD, Bipolar, and Depression. My husband has no sympathy, support, caring, or understanding for me. I lose things then that makes me irresponsible. I am an impulsive shopper no matter ho hard I want to stay on the list. I have begged for hep with this and my kids and my husband all think I should just change my behavior. I am constantly late. I try's hard. Noe I am writing the time for my appointment to be earlier but he still thinks I am irresponsible. I am messy . He hates it.
Not Respecting Other People versus Being Unaware and not showing respect for other peoples' belongings, time, or space.
I'd like to hear what others, including those diagnosed with add, think about this.
My husband is diagnosed both npd and add. He definitely has unawareness, but I've also seen clearly that he has no respect for other people as valuable individuals in their own right.
Let me preface this post by saying that I don't believe in anything supernatural. I have no religion, and I am not in any way (even vaguely) spiritual. I'm being facetious.
So this morning we set out early and drove almost an hour away to an apple orchard. One of those "you-pick" agri-tourism outfits where you pay for a basket and you let the kids tear through their orchard having fun picking apples. We do these kinds of things mainly because my wife was at one time a professional photographer, and it is a good backdrop for fall pictures of the kids.
I noticed a forum discussion on sex with a ADD/ADHD partner my husband is not only ADD/ADHD he is also addicted to video games and loves his computer.
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After several years, I've realized my partner is high-functioning ADD. He has blurts and doesn't hear me a majority of the time, although he tries to do well. My self-worth was very badly damaged, but I love him and I am realizing that I fell in love with someone with a disorder. I'm a professional, bull-headed type who has never responded well...but now I understand that he can't help it.
I haven't been here in awhile but had a huge fight with my husband last night and I'm feeling in need of some venting. I'm 3000 miles from home because we are out of state attending my father-in-law's memorial service. My FIL died a couple of months ago so all of the planning and preparing was done before we got here. We couldn't fly in to help right after he passed because we only had the money to make one trip (because my husband hasn't worked in a couple of years) and my MIL wanted us to be here for the service. I had been saving for a small vacation anyway so I made arrangements to
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