While preparing for a recent Book Club being offered within the Intent to Action Membership I listened to an interview of Penn and Kim Holderness where Penn very simply and eloquently discussed the topic "Talking ADHD Evaluation and Diagnosis with your Tween".
At approximately 10:25 minutes into the video Penn provides a wonderful explanation and example for parents to use who find themselves wanting to broach this sensitive topic with their tween.
I share it here in hopes that someone may find it both useful and helpful :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=11OENqySsHw&list=PLMh3Hbf7EP0otJmcbjcBnIzlE107TqM_G&index=3