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  • thank J...
    by: c ur self - 5 months 4 weeks ago
    I am good w/ all the cooking and cleaning stuff (raised by a highly energetic working & disciplinarian mom w/ 2 brothers, no sisters)...I taught my first wife (I was 20, she was 19) how to cook...So maintaining a clean healthy environment will be normal for me...I'm planning on remodeling my home once she has moved...I will just take it one room at a time...Strip up the carpets, remove wallpaper, float out the walls, paint the ceilings, replace the light fixtures/fans etc...I'll probably do the kitchen...
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  • Thank you for the comments
    by: ForestFin - 5 months 4 weeks ago
    Thank you all so much for the support and lovely and encouraging words, they mean so much to me and held me accountable for the past month.  Our divorce has now been finalized and he moved away yesterday, flew back to his home country. Airport goodbyes were so freaking sad I can't even express it. As we are from two different countries, for our whole relationship the airport has been a happy place for reuniting, nut now it was a place for goodbye. The divorce process went surprisingly well, no...
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  • C When I've been alone and single...
    by: J - 5 months 4 weeks ago
    one of my ADHD strategies for house keeping is not making work that I don't want to do. Even though it's not environmentally friendly, buying plastic plates, cups and silverware worked exceptionally well for me at various times!  I also made a lot of one skillet meals, usually stir fry. One skillet, one utensil and one knife. The combinations are endless and they take minutes to make.  At least the kitchen was always clean. Lol
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  • I don't really feel like I
    by: Saira - 1 week 3 days ago
    I don't really feel like I was being brave. More like, I don't know, like maybe there was room for a different perspective. I admit I kind of just expected to get shot down and told that I didn't understand what people like me put their partners through and I'd understand that. It wouldn't be completely wrong, but not completely right either. I do think I understand part of it. Maybe not full empathy, but I can grasp that it's extremely painful and frustrating from an objective standpoint at the very least...
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