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Any time I express a need for myself my ADHD husband calls me selfish.  It doesn't matter what it is, I am labeled selfish and self centered. It has been this way our entire marriage and I am tired of it.  If I say "Please stop spending money randomly. Every time you do this I have to recalculate everything", I am selfish.  If I say "Please fix the faucet that has been inoperable for 8 months", I am selfish. Any concern I have, need I have, and most certainly any want I have, if I express it I am selfish.  He only sees what he thinks is necessary. 

It has been a serious roller coaster ride with my ADHD girlfriend.

I don't know what to do anymore. I feel very alone and she does things at the spare of the moment. I want to be with her, but she will be busy with this or that. I respect her space, yet sometimes she would say things that would be hurtful and the only I could do is walk away.

She takes meds but not on regular basis...she has posters of goals and plans all over the bedroom. All I want from her is to love me but it seem secondary to her.

Painful!

My wife and I have been married for about 2 yrs now and the last 7 months have been really difficult. I lied to her over our finances. She would ask if we were doing ok and I would just tell here that we were to avoid going into any detail. She found out, I wasn't even man enough to come and tell her myself.

How much is known about post-traumatic stress disorder and ADHD, or living with someone with ADHD? I've read about post traumatic stress disorder and I have a lot of the symptoms of it, after living with undiagnosed and undertreated ADHD? Maybe it's just a coincidence, but I'm just asking. Anyone else known anything?

This is my first time posting, though I've read through a lot of the articles on this site in the past. My husband of 10 years was diagnosed with adult ADD last year, and he's slowly gained a lot of insight into his condition. I'm fortunate to have a loving, conscientious husband...everything is great -- except, argh, the ADD! I feel battered down by it and I'm so, so tired...

I am a husband who lives with ADHD and I have only recently been diagnosed. I have been reading through this forum to help find some direction and strategies to help my wife.

Hi there,

My boyfriend of 9 months now is ADHD. At first, the relationship was wonderful and he was charming and respected me.

It seems that now he blows up at every little thing I have to say or if I do something he doesn't like, instead of just talking

to me, he spouts off mean horrible things and gets me crying. I know I'm not perfect and I'm an emotional person anyway

, but I feel like he plays on my insecurites somehow by making me turn into this crying little girl. Then of course after he calms 

Out of five people in my family, three have been diagnosed with ADHD.  My eldest son was diagnosed in college, and he still rebels against the diagnosis, refusing treatment just like his father.  I am sad as I watch him struggle in areas that might be easier with help.

Has anyone experienced their ADHD partner lying about money?