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After being diagnosed in January 2009, starting therapy and meds while unemployed and getting a new job that year, DH is unemployed again since December. Although is ADHD is not in control, this job loss is not totally his fault. Change of leadership, wanting to cut at the top to save money, finding nits to get people to quit. DH asked for accommodations, they wouldn't and blamed him, he was advised by his lawyer to quit and file a complaint with Human Rights. That's underway.

He was diagnosed last week with depression.

Hello all, I need some advice on this topic as I'm so heartbroken, sad, and very confused.  I was dating this lovely guy for about 5 months who has ADD.

I was just wondering if ADHD is a condition that is primarily in caucasions, or if it nondiscriminatory when it comes to race, gender etc?  There does seem to be a large majority of caucasion people with ADHD, but was just wondering if there are any statistics on this? Does anyone know? Melissa?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now. He has inattentive ADHD and has a history of verbally abusive relationships. I myself have OCD and have a history of physically abusive relationships. We are a very loving couple and can typically very understanding of each other. Unfortunately, when situations get stressed, that sometimes is not the case. Very often in arguments, I get the same response: “I’m sorry but that’s just how I think/am.

Hello, I am new here and am glad that I found this forum.  How do you handle disagreements with someone with ADHD?  My H is ADHD and I am at the point, after 5-years, of avoiding all disagreements with him because some how they always get turned around to how I am the overly sensitive unrealistic person in the relationship as I sit there in tears after being told to go F*** off.  Of course I'm going to be sensitive to being told that by someone who says that they love me and whom I deeply love.  Sometimes I feel as though maybe I AM the crazy sensitive one who is too easily hurt.  But when

I've been married to my husband for almost 12 years. He is a wonderful man, everyone's best friend, would give a stranger the clothes off his back, outside of the home. On the inside, I've felt like I have been going crazy for the past 12 years. I feel as though I am in constant fight or flight mode. I guess I don't understand. I've suspected for quite some time that he has ADD/ADHD but he will not get tested. We went to counseling once where he admits to having it but states he does not want to take medication and feels he can manage it.

How does one deal with an ADD spouse who does not show you any empathy.  Thus, for example, when I tell him that I am developing a migraine, he does not respond because he is too busy checking his phone.  Or I text him that I am not feeling well or had a bad day and he ignores it?  I feel like he doesn't care and when I call him on it, he blames it on being busy or having ADD.  I cannot stand not getting any emotional support from my husband. 

Hello my boyfriend A recently broke up with me and i was with him for 2 years we had a normal happy fun loving relationship when he was happy until he got in a mood,mad,stressed,piss,frustrated then it all went out the window.  He constantly reminds me of my past all my wrong doings but this was before him .