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My partner was diagnosed many years ago, and mentioned it 'in passing' shortly after we started dating (and living together) 20 months ago. I just figured that explained why he bounced off walls at times. However; his stress, anxiety and anger, while initially explained by stressful life situations, caused me to eventually wonder if something else is going on. I have only recently started researching - and found he is a classic case of ADHD/anxiety. He is highly functioning, has got a lot of self management systems in place, but in some ways is quite immature, cold and clueless.

hi im new to this site but ive been reading articles for a few weeks and got some interesting info let me tell u about my situation.i am a wife of a lovely inspiring husband of 16yrs and ive been with him for 26yrs he has been diagnosed with adhd and he is medicated since 1 1/2 yrs ago and he suffers from anxiety we have got three bueitiful children my eldest daughter is 13yrs old has had adhd since 4yrs old and suffers anxiety/depression and now coping with teenhood she is medicated since 7 she has been a great kid upto now she is very demanding and hard to handle and my son is 11yrs old a

i had a love before my marriage..due to my parents compulsion i left my love and married the guy for my family changing my mind .but my second life looks bit hard..i m trying to adjust myself in all ways..but he expects me to take responsibilty which i dont want to take now.i m generally a thin female ..

Hi. I'm new to the site and am looking for some help. This may be a long post! My husband informed me 4 weeks ago that he wants a divorce. There is a lot of reasons why but since he's told me this I've been thinking a lot about our marriage and what went wrong. Something that was there from the beginning was my husbands strange behavior. We often joked he had ADD but I didn't know enough about it to really know for sure if that is what he had. I eventually chaulked it up as who he was and tried to deal with him the best I could.

I'm a 37 year old stay-at-home Mom with ADD.  Just diagnosed about a year and a half ago.  I just started taking Adderall XR a few weeks ago.  But, I also have high anxiety whether it's social, general or having a panic attack when I'm driving in my car.  

So, after spending time reading these posts, I have to thank God that we are rather blessed that despite my alphabet soup of diagnoses, we have managed to work together to make it work.  But as the ADHD spouse, I am so frustrated! 

What if the ADHD spouse is in charge of everything, and needs help, and the other person doesn't help?  I am so frustrated.  He sees my to-do list, which I keep with me at all times for jotting down things as they hit, and I'm lucky if he offers to do one or two. 

Perhaps this is the totally wrong place to ask this. I have not quite been diagnosed with ADHD yet. I actually have Multiple Sclerosis with a lot of cognitive problems. In fact one neuropsych report said the testing showed some ADD. Is it possible to have ADD that was mild enough to go undiscovered all my life until my MS cognitive problems caused the ADD to come to the forefront? I am no longer married but in a relationship now. Thoughts on this?

First of all, thank you so much for the opportunity to learn and share with others in my position (non ADD wife). The support and understanding feels extremely comforting.

I am looking for some support and answers regarding diagnosis and denial.  A psychiatrist diagnosed my husband a few years ago with ADD yet my husband is in deep denial and refuses to seek treatment or see how his behavior affects others.  He believes he is "managing" just fine. After many arguments and broken promises, I felt I had no option but to enable him by taking on the finances, children, home, calendar, estate planning, investments, initiating sex, planning time for us to be together, etc. Many of these tasks cannot just go undone.

hello,

I am new here and my partner Archie has only just being diagnosed with ADHD [he is 45] even though we have been together for ten years and I have suspected for a long time that this was one of his traits.

I have got a lot of different questions and information I would like to gather!.....but my first question is a bit random, I am hoping someone might help: