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I feel for others on this form. After my relationship now ending, I can see how having PTSD with ADHD caused it to be very difficult for me to not become defensive when my partner was acting out his own issues. I am just unable to explain what it is like to have both. From asking him to not suddenly touch me from behind or I Yelp like I might be being attacked to not wanting to watch Gorey tv or gory cartoons. My nerves got shot quickly just from loud then soft volume levels on shows. He just couldn't understand. And unfortunately blamed me in an abusive manner more often than not.

Hello all~

I have been together with this man, he's 37. I'm unsure if he is adhd, and i'm trying to understand what is happening.  After a while i could see Signs that he had adhd and said i thought he was right. Then he wouldn't talk about it anymore and just said he didn't have it and we shouldn't talk about it anymore. He is impulsive, wants to do this and that, and suddenly not. He have a lot of things he does, planning all the time, is very energetic and just the way he talks about things stresses me.

I'm new here - stumbled across this forum when I was looking for ideas for living with a dependent spouse. 

I was diagnosed with ADHD in my mid 30's, and with the diagnoses, allot of my life came into focus, and it did not look good. I receive mental health care through Veteran Affairs, and they will not treat me with medication. I have such a difficult time being present in the moment I miss so much when it comes to my wife, and to a lesser extent my daughter (my daughter and I are hyperactive over the same activities).  

12 months ago I spoke with a friend who was diagnosed with ADHD, we spoke about his symptoms and it all made sense, maybe I had this mystical ADHD thing. Of my own volition, I seeked out a psychiatrist and was soon diagnosed. I seem to recall my wife was against me 'wasting the money', mainly because she was just as clueless about ADHD as I was - before that, I really had no idea about ADHD symptoms at all, I was clueless that I had it. - mainly my sense of underachievement was my reason to get officially diagnosed.  

I have depression and anxiety that I'm seeking treatment for. My husband has add. We are older adults with grown children. I'm looking for hope out there that a marriage can survive this and how. 

I am a 38-year-old male. I have been with my partner for over 7 years. Together we have 4 kids, two from us, and two from her prior marriage. In December of 2019, I was officially diagnosed with ADHD by my primary. Since then, I have been on Lexapro and Amphetamine. Since being on the medication, the side effects really started to take a toll on me. I am talking major mood issues, irritability, perseverating, emotional outburst, and major emotional disregulation. In the more recent months of this summer. I was self-medicating with alcohol.

I'm new here, is there anybody to talk to today? Need some advice.

This is my first post, and to be honest, I'm ready to pack my bags after eight years with my ADHD boyfriend.