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he is very defensive all the time "every time".

My husband is a very defensive man all the time "every time"no matter the conversation...I am not at all in any position to allow the anger tantrums get to me at all these days with the ability to keep my emotions in tact,and, I did...I somehow managed to not let his ADHD effect, overcome me by simply talking out my issues to him and not flaring up the way he did "TONIGHT"he was "Speedy Gonzales",I never even got a chance to voice my opinion, his tantrums and anger is beyond imaginations,and thoughts.I have sooo much love for him,,, and failure on his part to acknowledge this is way pass hi

HIS ADDICTION TO PORNOGRAPHY,

I was not even aware that my husband was addicted to porn until I read "Melissa's book", and until I finally saw it with my own eyes.I was with and always is with my ADHD husband on weekends, by his apartment with him, and yesterday his cable bill came and I looked at it when he was asleep in the drawer where he keeps his bills,I saw that the cable bill is 5 hundred dollars more than the actual cost,and I was in shock!!!!

dealing with self centeredness....

So My DF has been diagnosed with ADD a few months ago and has been on and off of his medicine since his diagnosis.  He just communicated to me today that he will not be taking his medicine anymore because it is completely taking away his appetite and is also causing him sleepless nights.  He also said yesterday that he would be fine without it.  I'm not sure how I feel about that because in all honesty I don't feel like I've seen many changes in him when he has been taking it.  He says he feels calmer and a little more focused but he still gets easily frustrated.  I told him that as his nex

Low tolerance behavior,

My husband tonight was very angry for no reason I could remember,I am dependent on him more than ever before, to help me with getting to the grocery with his car, to get my stuff for the business because my car is presently fixing"by him" and he seem to be failing me with that "ALSO",I love him a lot,,,,,,,, and I could see certain efforts in him to make change but he is not a patient man at all!!!!!!

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