I was just reading a post in the forum area from a woman sharing her experiences with how much using the word AND has improved her life with her sons and husband. I thought it was an interesting and positive idea that more would like to read about, so I link to it here. AND is a positive word - it's inclusive (much needed in the ADD world), and helps take things away from "black and white" viewpoints. AND, it's accepting. See what you think.