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So, I thought I would start this due to the similarities that a lot of us share...the FEAR of the UNKNOWN....  it doesn't matter what side of the spectrum of the relationship your on but I've noticed that most of the time, fear of the unknown causes more harm that anything....if the fear paralysis you to stay in an unhappy and or unhealthy relationship.  

I know this is a site for ADHD support but as we all know:  ADHD is typically coupled with some other form of MI and it's hard to distinguish whats doing what.

I'm creating this topic in case anyone would care to join me in venting about it, as April 15 gets very close.

My ADHD and Marriage and Income Taxes story is not as painful as many people's, I know.  But it's painful enough for me.

Today is my first day managing my ADHD. For background, my damage includes inattentiveness as well as some "#nofilter" style communication, and just about everything else. Today, was great. The whole thing is a combo of routine, meds and a few sound bytes from the many helpful people in these forums, YouTube and elsewhere. Not only have I got a lot done work wise. I worked out, chatted with our preschooler, had bfast with my wife after driving back across town to get something she accidentally left at home, folded the clothes and now I'm taking a break to write this.

Hello everyone! First and foremost I would like to express how extremely happy I am learning about this website. I have only read few topics (for now), and it already made me feel relieve. It makes me feel sane knowing that I am not alone in this "battle".

I have been in and out of therapy for most of my life for a variety of issues that I could never seem to put a finger on.  I stumbled across this site and Melissa's book as my relationship to my fiance continues to decline.  I resonated with so much of what I have read thus far and am convinced that I have ADHD and it is negatively affecting my relationship.  I plan to discuss this with my therapist in our next meeting, but when I brought this up to my fiance, she was skeptical that all it provides is validation and nothing else.

I realize this site is focused on ADHD; however, my husband is not diagnosed as such that I know of.  We've been married almost 30 years.  The first 5 were horrible; he drank til he passed out all the time.  He got sober in 1991.  Fell off the wagon in 2006 til 2009 and has been sober since then.  He was a mean drunk.  He's mean when he's sober too and selfish.  We both have strong personalities, so I don't let him bully me.  Everything I say, or do, he opposes.  Every issue becomes and argument no matter how irrelevant.....He likes to dispute, debate, discount everything I say.   I have mo

Hi all,

I thought some of you might be interested to know that there's a French-Canadian movie out at the moment about a teenage boy with ADHD and his mother. The movie's called "Mommy". Basically it's the story of how she tries to cope with bringing him up. My boyf (who has ADHD) and myself (who doesn't) both really enjoyed it and thought it very true to life. I have to warn you, it is very sad and disturbing in places, but also very funny and touching in others. Good to see the subject getting some intelligent media coverage in any case.

Best, 

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Hi, I live in the Great Lakes area, am in a lengthy marriage with four children, and was diagnosed a few years back. Now we're in deep trouble and I just need some outside eyes.

 I'm now talking to those of us who have ADHD ........and it's addressing the very thing that I think that many us fail to see or remember in important moments when dealing with our spouses, partner's or SO's... especially!

Because our minds are in constant motion with difficulty turning it off or changing directions.....we need to mindful that we do not assume that everyone else is like this....which is painfully obvious at this point.  Just a few words to state what I feel is not getting said from the inside looking out........

A couple of my FB friends posted this article within the last couple of weeks. I don't know either of them well enough to know if they were posted it because they have ADHD, they love someone with ADHD, or they just found it interesting.

I'd like reactions from non-ADHD spouses. I'm not going to share my reaction right away. I want to hear from others first.

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