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My husband has ADD and dyslexia.  He was diagnosed during childhood.  From the beginning of our relationship, his forgetfulness and carelessness have always been an issue.  He was very careless with his money and had a significant amount of debt before we married.  I found it easier to assume the bills, because then I knew they were taken care of and paid (or not paid late.)  I eventually just started assuming more and more responsibilities.  When he was left with something, I found he never did it, or did it wrong and I had to suffer the consequences of his decisions.  Four years ago, we h

So, I posted earlier this week that I decided to end my relationship with my DH of almost 3 years because of his lack of effort to maintain and work on his own condition.  His ADHD has made life very painful for both of us, and I finally cracked.  It has become a choice of spend time with my mother in another state because she has stage 4 cancer that isn't getting any better, or stay with my DH and work on our relationship.  I have been on this treadmill for 2 years since his diagnosis but he still wont even take his meds.  Here are the details if you want background:

I've posted before, my husband has ADD (inattentive), forgetful, angry, can't follow through with anything, bad parent, etc.  He was diagnosed last spring, he is on meds and sees that dr regulary.  He saw a therapist but after 2 sessions she moved, got a new therapist-saw her twice then never called her for another appt.  He finally, the other week, called a different place and had a consultation with a new therapist.  He has also been reading a book on ADHD that I gave him called your life can be better.  This is the book that I told him about a couple months ago and he said I don't have A

I'm a 26 year old male with ADHD. My wife and i met 7 years ago at work, were dating for 6 months then engaged, stuff progressed fairly quick, were married six months after that. two months after marriage my wife was pregnant with  our first child. I Spent my 21st birthday at home with a pregnant wife, went through kind of a crisis, tried to prepare for our first by buying a house, two cars and so on.

I am finally ready to get off this ADHD merry go round, exhausted and disorientated with life.  My husband has so many great qualities but I cannot cope with the instability of our relationship any longer. It is like having a cross awkward, dopey child one minute and an overexcited child with tunnel vision the next. I never feel I can rely on him to be a husband that I can turn to, for him to take the lead.  He is wonderfully loving to me and my children but has caused us so much pain. Cheating, drugs, alcohol, lying...you name it he's put us through it.

This may be a long shot, but just curious if there is, perhaps, a commonality with this like there has been with so many other things among us all.

Do any of your ADHD partners often get sick/or are often just always feeling a bit "off"?

My ex-BF seemed to be sick so often (it was long distance so obviously hard for me to ascertain).  He very often had headaches, heartburn, felt foggy...he caught colds easily and often had stomach issues.  He also had a sleep disorder and if able, would often sleep for 12-16+ hour stretches.

Yesterday, I finally took that dive off the diving board.  I told my husband of 2.5 years that I was moving to Georgia to be close to my parents and my brother and his family.   Like so many non ADHD spouses, my relationship with him has been very difficult.  I went from being the center of the world for 3 months to nothing overnight.  I probably should have run then, but I kept coming back.  I have known him for more than half my life (I will be 39 this year) and we reconnected after many years of no contact.  We used to be the best of pals, and then things developed into something more ab

Hello,

I'm hoping  someone can shed some light on my situation.

I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. We are both divorced with children (he has 2 girls and I have 2 boys). He is truly an amazing and wonderful person, father, boyfriend, son, uncle and brother. If I wrote down everything I wanted in a boyfriend he was it.

It struck me today how much my husband amuses me. Im not sure if its like this for other people, but ADHD makes my husband pretty spontaneous in his responses to questions and his actions. It's never ever boring or predictable.  Also, he seems perfectly okay with making good natured fun of himself and being silly just for the sake of being silly.

Hello everyone I have been reading through these forums for about a month now trying to work up the nerve to make a post and ask for help or advice, but I'm at a breaking point in my marriage and really need to know what a community of people who have experience with ADHD to possibly sort threw some of this mess.